Tech Etiquette

Tech Etiquette

Empathy and Conflict Resolution, As Explained by Twitter’s Help Section

Twitter at 5:00 pm. (Photo: Flickr)

On Twitter, the laws are loose, the smack talk is rampant and the passive-aggressive hate tweets deliver a such a rush. And since many of us are spending most of our waking moments on the site acting like dicks to each other,  we sometimes lose our grasp on the fact that our 140 character diatribes have meaning and can hurt other (weak) people’s feelings.

Twitter, the omnipresent guidance counselor who doesn’t offer you lollipop after your post-session brain dump, has posted some guidelines on its Help Center to help users feel feelings. It offers a free masterclasses in feeling empathy, conflict resolution, and even decoding what can be considered offensive content. Read More

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Man Whose iPhone Interrupted New York Philharmonic Hasn’t Slept in Two Days: ‘It’s Horrible, Horrible’

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The New York Times has dredged up the offender responsible for the iPhone marimba disruption during a concert of the New York Philharmonic earlier this week. An executive between 60 and 70 who runs two companies, he confessed his guilt to the paper of record on condition of anonymity. “You can imagine how devastating it is to know you had a hand in that,” he told the Times. “It’s horrible, horrible.”

He had not slept in two days, he said. Read More

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Don’t Let Your iPhone Go Off in the Middle of the New York Philharmonic


Last night, a high society smartphone faux pas at Lincoln Center: an iPhone marimba rang out during the final moments of a performance of composer Gustav Mahler’s 9th symphony at the New York Philharmonic. The marimba did not stop until the conductor stopped the performance and marched out into the audience to personally reprimand the offender.

A film student, Max Kinchen, was there to chronicle the experience on his blog.The phone started ringing in a boisterous moment in the music, he said, but it persisted until a quiet section of the piece, where violins and wind instruments clashed with the marimba. “Finally, in a move that shocked the whole venue, Gilbert [the conductor] put down his baton and signaled the players to stop,” Mr. Kinchen wrote. “The audience was dead silent for a moment, save of course for the terrible sound of the ringing phone. Then, suddenly there was the sound of a great shifting and rumbling as every single person in the hall reached for their pockets and made sure their phones were off. And still, the phone continued to ring.”

The conductor later said he locked eyes with a couple in the front row who seemed paralyzed. Read More